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Life and Loss Well, I am currently sitting on an airplane next to Adam headed for Orlando, Fl. We are on our way for a week of form analysis, training, and sunshine. A training camp is just what the doctor ordered. Lately running has been the farthest thing from my mind. My father-in-law, Dick Goucher, passed away last weekend. He had been battling esophageal cancer, and his body was no longer willing to fight. Adam and I were with him in Arkansas when he passed, and it would be stating the obvious to say that this has been a difficult time for us. How we will miss Papa Gouch. His gentle personality, his never ending kindness. He has taught Adam and I how to love and listen. How to be patient, faithful, and we will miss his constant encouragement. His belief in us to accomplish any goal, and his sense of humor. Well will miss him so much. But in such a sad and painful time, Papa Gouch made something wonderful happen… His family came together to care for him. Stories were shared, pasts were forgiven, and love was exchanged openly and without hesitation. You see, even at the darkest hour, Papa Gouch gave us something beautiful — family and love. He has forever touched our lives and we will never be the same. But we are forever changed for the better, knowing such a kind and loving man will make us strive to be better people. In times of loss we look to life, and for Adam and I that is very easy. My little sister, Kendall Schoolmeester, is nine months pregnant and due March 29th. Seeing the transformation of my little sister, both emotionally and physically, over the last nine months has been an amazing journey. My little sister, who I have given much (although plenty of it ignored?) advice to over the past 25 years, is now teaching me. She has become an expert on pregnancy, scaring me with all sorts of information and details that no one ever talks about! But she has truly found her calling, mother. She has transformed before my eyes to a loving and caring mom. It has been such a blessing to see! Adam and I are eagerly awaiting our newest niece. The fact that she is coming into our lives when we are losing one is no coincidence. We are so happy to have this joyous occasion to look forward to. We can’t wait! So, lately my thoughts have been on family, not running. It’s good to head to this training camp. It is a chance to get my “running self” back on track, and back to focusing on the year ahead. But sometimes, life gives you ways of putting it all in perspective. Adam and I have hopes and dreams of Olympic glory. But we would give it up in a heartbeat for the ones we love. Enjoy life, running, and what’s truly important. |
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